The Gilbert Family flower is the Sunflower. It serves as a loving Tribute to Emma Bertha Caroline Gilbert, the Family Matriarch, who was, herself, a Kansas Sunflower.
Taken at the funeral of Millard G. Gilbert, April 2, 1943
Back Row; L-R; Kenneth Gilbert, Lewis Gilbert, Calvin Gilbert, Quentin Gilbert, John Gilbert, Andrew Gilbert, Charlie Gilbert
Front Row; L-R; Elsie Gilbert Nelson, Lilly Gilbert Kretchmer, Gaylord Gilbert, Grandma Emma Gilbert, Louisa Gilbert Woeppel, Flossie Gilbert Bubnash, Lucy Gilbert Bailey, Iris Gilbert Hay
The Gilbert Family at their home in Charlo, Montana
Circa 1924
L-R: Mama (Pregnant with Calvin), Lilly, John, Quentin, Louisa, Lewis, Elsie, Andrew, Charlie, Lucy, Papa
Millard Glasco Gilbert
December 30, 1883-March 30, 1943
Emma Bertha Caroline Talmon
Gilbert Albro
May 25, 1888-March 21, 1987
Married December 19, 1904
The Gilbert Family in the car used to relocate to Chinook, Montana
Circa 1925
Written By Elsie K. Gilbert Nelson
We left Snyder, Colorado, after the South Platte River flooded and ruined all the crops. Papa had planted sugar-beets; corn and 5 acres of cucumbers, contracted for by the pickling company which had furnished the seed. Banks were closing all over the U.S. and the Snyder bank was among them. The folks had saved $100.00 which was lost except for $10.00 which Mama had withdrawn the day before for shopping. Mama was always happy that she got that $10.00. She told us about it down through the years.
It was the summer of 1921 that we left Snyder in our covered wagon, with our team, Frank and Duke, and a young saddle horse, Bill, behind. We kids took turns riding Bill. It took all summer to reach Worland, Wyoming. We stayed there as Papa thought trapping would be good there. We kids had to start to school. Mama was carrying our sister, Lilly, who was born in March, 1922. Since the invention and usage of the water-bed we tease Lilly about having had the water-bed all the way on that trip. Papa and Mama had a bed spring and a straw tick fixed on over-jets on the wagon box. We kids slept in tents. We covered an average of 20 miles per day. We stopped at noon to feed, water and rest the horses and to have our own lunch and some exercise after riding in the wagon. Of course, we kids got out and walked when ever we wanted more freedom.
When we arrived at Worland, Papa had only 17 cents and 9 kids. He mortgaged the team, harnesses and horses to get starting money. Papa got a contract for beet harvest work from Mr. Reece. We kids always had to help. All work was done manually, at that time. Beet raisers always furnished a house for the laborers. We were about ten miles from town and when we started to school we rode on the bus.
The next spring Papa got a contract to do summer beet work - blocking and thinning, plus first , second and third hoeing if that was needed. Blocking and thinning required short handled hoes. One cut a couple of swathes on the hoe, then cut each side of a small section of beets from which all those growing in it were pulled, except the largest one. Any doubles and any weeds left by over-sight, were hoed or pulled out, in the later work. Weeds between rows were controlled by cultivating and Papa did that, We worked for a Mr. Likum. Papa told us he would get us some firecrackers for the Fourth of July if we got done with the beet work. WE DID! When school started that fall, we rode on the school bus to town at Worland, Wyoming.
The schoolhouse was a nice brick building. The next summer we worked beets for a Mr. Marple who had a large farm with extensive holdings. The beet house was the nicest we had ever been furnished. It had an upstairs and plastered walls. The place was about one mile from the town of Manderson, Wyoming. There were four laborer houses nicely grouped and an irrigation ditch ran near-by. We were permitted to have gardens and to irrigate them. Our drinking water came from a well. We walked to school and Sunday school from that place. The minister was a farmer who lived up the road from us. His name was Reverend Ayers. Five of us were baptized in the little baptist Church at Manderson, Wy. (In 1977, mother, my sister, Zella, her husband, Andy, and I, made a trip to Colorado, Wyoming, Nebraska and Kansas, all former states where we had lived. We visited our little Baptist Church. We traveled in a nice motor home to retrace the route we had made in previous travels.)
When we left Manderson, Wyoming, another family, also employed by Mr. Marple, decided to go with us. We had covered wagons and were bound for Portland. "Oregon or Bust" became our motto. We had our same team, Frank and Duke and our saddle horse, Bill. We went through Yellowstone Park. We kept a camp-fire going all night to keep the bears away. We had a pot of beans on the camp grate. but the altitude was so high that the beans were nowhere near done. We were camped closer to Old Faithful geyser than people are permitted to be nowadays.
We kids were disappointed that we never did see a bear as we went through Yellowstone Park. We saw some gypsies who wanted to tell Mama's fortune, but Mama didn't have money for such an expenditure. Another interesting sight was a motion picture crew, their faces looked so white, all powdered up.
When we entered Yellowstone Park the guns Papa had were wired and sealed until we were to leave the park. If the seals were broken the owner was to be fined. Brother Quentin was fooling around with the wiring and seal and he broke it. Mama was so worried as we had no money to pay a fine; When we reached the check-out station Mama explained how the seal had been broken. Quentin was only four years old so no fine was charged. Guns were always kept in our home as Papa and the older boys trapped and hunted, both necessary for our livelihood. The guns were always unloaded when not in use at home. Papa had trained the boys well. We were thankful that the check-out ranger accepted Mom’s explanations of the broken seal. Andrew and Charlie told Lewis and I if a bat pooped on our heads we would get bald-headed. We kept caps on whenever that might happen!
We kids really enjoyed the trip, we thought store-bought bread was a real treat and Mama's camp-fire cooked meals tasted delicious. My reader had had a story entitled "How The Frog Lost It's Tail." I was filling a pail with water when I saw a small frog with a tail. I was astonished; I ran to tell Mama about it. She told me that tad poles go through a metamorphosis, getting legs and losing their gills and their tails. That is the only time I have ever seen a frog with a tail. Papa shot big rattlesnakes that were shedding their skins during "Dog-Days'. We put a heavy rope around the outside of the tent as we had heard that snakes would not crawl over a rope. We slept better, having taken this precaution. One day Andrew and Charlie saw a bee-tree and they were going to get us some honey. When they came back all they had was an empty pail. Their eyes were swollen shut and they needed larger hats for their heads!
We traveled as far as Paul, Idaho, just a small town, but it had a grade school and a high school. Papa decided to stay there. He contracted for fall beet-topping and harvesting.To harvest beets, the beets first have to be lifted from the ground by machinery called a puller. Then the workers knock them together to remove some of the dirt or mud that clings to the beets. The beets are then piled about three rows to each side, leaving a space in the middle so a V-sled can be pulled by team down the center to smooth the ground where the topped beets will be tossed. The smoothed ground cuts down on the dirt (tare) that gets into the load which is to be taken to be weighed and dumped at the beet -dump. The dump is located by the railroad where the beets are loaded into box-cars to be shipped to the sugar-beet factory. Beet work was some times very cold, miserable work, depending upon the weather. In wet weather there was more mud to knock off the beets and it was pretty heavy work for the younger kids. Lewis and I were just little yet. We lived in town during the school term, so could walk to school.
When school was out, year of 1924, Papa was ready to move on. He traded the team, wagon., harnesses, saddle horse and saddle for a Willys-knight automobile. It had two jump-seats behind the front seat -a good car for our big family, The man who had had the auto had hit a man riding a motorcycle and killed him; therefore, he did not want to drive anymore. That is the auto we drove to Charlo, Montana. Back then, one could turn off the ignition and coast down hills and mountains, saving considerably on gasoline. We did some beet-thinning for Mr. Dellwo. His beets were bigger than they should have been for thinning and it was difficult work. Papa bought a place formerly owned by the Rich sisters, school teachers, who had homesteaded the land. They had built a nice barn on it. It was red with white trim and had never had animals in it. We lived in it during the summer. Papa used the extra lumber which was intended for side extensions for the barn, to build the shack shown in the picture. Calvin was born in there, November 2, 1924. We never did make it to Portland to live. " Oregon or Bust" was forgotten. The other family who started from Wyoming with us did go on to Portland. One son raised thoroughbred horses. We attended school at Charlo for one term. Lucy was one of the star basketball players on the high-school team. She was left handed, so was called Little-Lefty.
After school was out Papa, Charlie and Andrew went to Chinook, Montana. They did sugar-beet work there. When Papa and the boys came back from Chinook Papa announced that we were moving to Chinook. The Utah-Idaho Sugar Company was build a sugar-factory there- that attracted Papa as beets were raised in the Milk River Valley. He brought some pamphlets back with him. Lewis and I rode horseback to distribute them to other farmers around Charlo. We used the Willys-Knight and the new Ford Model T which Papa bought, to go to Chinook. Andrew drove the Willys Knight and we bigger kids rode with him. He would stop and wait for Papa to get ahead so he could drive faster to catch up. We called him "The Speeder". Cars did not go very fast speeds; therefore, no one really drove very fast even though there was no speed limit. Charlie rode our saddle horse, Ranger through to Chinook. Ranger was a black, part thoroughbred.
We had another horse, Babe, at Charlo. I had read a story stating that one Indian tribe gave the first family member to discover the baby's first tooth, a horse, Calvin Charlo had the best rubbed gums any baby ever had. I reported his first tooth and I claimed Babe for my horse. Papa had no objections, Babe was sold to some friends so I did not feel too badly about leaving her. Of the fourteen Gilbert children, only our two oldest sisters had never lived at, or near, Chinook. Zella Ieft home in Idaho. She did go to Portland, Oregon where she stayed with the friends who had gone on to Oregon. She soon found a job and a place of her own. When she came to visit us at Charlo, Lucy went to Oregon with her. Those of us who lived in Chinook and later in near-by towns, still have a familial feeling for the U&I sugar factory. That building WAS and IS a monument to our future destinies, from the oldest brother, Charles, to each of us, including youngest brother, Gaylord. (While Papa, Charlie and Andrew were in Chinook with the car, Mama used the horse and buggy to go to town for groceries. We kids usually rode Shanks Mare (walked) if we had nothing heavy to carry.
That is why I had Kretchmer's bid on the framed 100# sugar sack donated by Scott Mackenzie to be sold at the Blaine County Wild life auction. It is hanging in my dining room and it is a prized possession.
Our parents, our brother, John, and a nephew, Roger, are interred in Chinook Cemetery. My sisters and I go there every Memorial Day to honor them and to decorate their resting places.
#1-Zella "Flossie" Marie Gilbert
January 27, 1906-January 23, 1993
#2-Lucy Elma Gilbert
July 16, 1907-June 16, 1994
#3-Charles " Charlie" Herman Gilbert
February 12, 1909-May 4, 2004
#4-Andrew Francis Gilbert
November 15, 1910-March 6, 1998
#5-Elsie Kay Gilbert
February 3, 1913-August 10, 2016
#6-Lewis Clarence Gilbert
January 12, 1915-June 12, 2005
#7- Louisa Sarah Gilbert
January 2, 1917-May 5, 2005
#8-Quentin Theodore Gilbert
August 19, 1918-July 7, 2009
#9-Millard "John" Warren Gilbert
May 21, 1920-March 20, 1952
#10-Lilly Ruth Gilbert
March 12, 1922-
#11-Calvin Charlo Gilbert
November 2, 1924-September 15, 1983
#12-Iris Evangeline Gilbert
September 1, 1926-
#13- Kenneth Maynard Gilbert
June 4, 1929-November 25, 2019
#14-Gaylord "The Caboose" Roland Gilbert
March 20, 1933-October 26, 2017
Written by Iris Evangeline Gilbert Hay
A Kansas sunflower named "Emma", did Marry a Gilbert by first name of "Mid"
Emma was young, cheerful and giving, And endured many years of unusual living
"Mid" was small--sort of an ornery squirt, Who dressed for his wedding in a pink shirt
A point of interest I'd like to lend, Is that Emma wanted no kids to tend
To this "Mid" replied, "If you'll marry me", "You'll have no children--just wait and see
So they headed, in love, to the town Atwood, And tied the knot like a good couple should
Then settled in their dug-outs and shacks, with little but the clothes on their backs
It wasn't long--just a couple of years, When a squalling baby rattled their ears
Their first-born was a girl named Zella, Chores fell to her like Cinderella
A happy baby she was when new, But her playful years were mighty few
Being the oldest she had to assist, For a growing family to exist
When she grew up and went her way, She worked just as hard with little pay
Onions, fruit, foxes and farming, Didn't hurt her looks ever so charming
Born in Kansas, town of Big Timber, So was sister, Lucy, kicking and limber
Lucy played basketball, rode horses and dreamed, Cause Papa was strict and for pleasure she schemed
She was a tomboy and sort of a jogger, When she grew up she married a logger
With these two girls sixteen months a part, Emma and "Mid" were off to a running start
Before another two years went by, A boy was born and produced his cry
They named him Charles--he was their third, Born at Parks, Nebraska, he increased the herd
His life was one of strife and toil, As he trapped the rivers and farmed the soil
And looking back before Charlie was two, Upon the scene came brother Andrew
They'd moved to Colorado, Fort Morgan's the place, Andy, their fourth-wore hand-me-downs with lace
He grew up to be handy in many dabblings, Be it cooking, farming, fixings and gab-lings
Before brother Andrew was even three, He had to move over for sister, Elsie
We had moved to Nebraska-town Benkelman, And Elsie numbered fifth when her birth was done
She fit in the family--another peach, Grew up and decided she wanted to teach
When married they ranched, moteled and business bents, Which in later years gave dollars and cents
The next two years brought another son, As they moved in Nebraska to town of Trenton
This boy named Lewis was able and apt, To farming and cattle he seemed to adapt
While growing up and going to school, His lessons came easy as a rule
He brought Emma's children up to six, As they traveled through prairies, hollows and sticks
In Laird, Wyoming, then two years after, Sister Louisa came and bulged the rafter
Those little houses were hard on our mother, But she always found room to put another
This sister Lou was seventh and small, And never did grow to be very tall
But when it came to turning a hand, She did her share in home and on land
When she grew up she took her seat, Beside her husband who grew his wheat
Then one day before Louisa turned two, Our brother Quentin made his debut
Snyder, Colorado was our home by then, And Quentin was eighth in the lion's den
He hunted, farmed, trapped and fixed, And later put hand to mechanic's tricks
A World War II soldier, he came back in tact, Forgetting not how to work, that's a fact
When Quent was only about twenty-one months, Brother Millard (John) took his place in the runts
He, too, was born in the town of Snyder, Was Emma's ninth when they laid him beside her
He trapped, hunted and farmed like his brothers, In that day and age there were very few druthers
When soldier John arrived home from the war, He had marksmanship medals to hang on his door
His aim was good; his hand was steady, Where the army took him he was ever-ready
And, once again, before John was two, Sister Lilly was born and ready to chew
We'd migrated by then to Worland, Wyoming, And she numbered tenth in our roaming and homing
Whether huddled in beet house or cracker box, Emma tended her family who had contracted small pox
She nursed baby Lilly and gave them to her, They survived the crisis but how they did suffer
Lilly was active and grew up to like beauty, Worked like the rest cause that was her duty
She worked in shipyards, motels, and more, Her eventual husband owned a furniture store
She was just a two year old rapscallion, When she gained a brother by the name of Calvin
The family had gone Montana way, And lived at Charlo on Cal's birth day
This eleventh child name after a Chief, Worked for his living with little relief
He, too, helped fight in the second world war, As a Paratrooper in the Army afar
Although he was injured on head and face, It really left visible nary a trace
Many lines of work he did under the sun, Haying, railroading, and auto wrecking by the ton
And when Calvin was around three years old, Along came sister Iris to join the fold
By now poor Emma had child twelve, And fixed it a place upon the shelve
'Twas Chinook, Montana where Iris was born, She had a layette that had never been worn
She was healthy at first and large enough, Then got sick and frail--but she was tough
She grew up working at various rank, Orchards, canneries and years in a bank
clerical/office works were her arts, And her husband sold cars and auto parts
About the time that Iris was three, Another brother, Kenneth, came to be
Still at Chinook the family resided, Emma now had thirteen to be weaned and didied
Ken followed suit and worked the beets, Did farming and odds to pay for his eats
When he grew up he decided to start, a store where he could sell auto parts
He had it good cause he was four, Before Emma gave birth to one last more
Brother Gaylord emerged also in Chinook, And he numbered fourteen in our history book
He, too, worked hard as his life progressed, was in the service and at times hard pressed
He farmed, cattled and built Montana roads, And managed somehow to carry his loads
He grew up tall, healthy and strong, And somehow no others came along
Now through it all Emma moved here and there, Wherever "Mid" took her she didn't care
At times "Mid" drank, yelled and hit, But she nursed her babies with love and "tit"
By miracle, we all made it through, With Emma there to cook the stew
To scrub our clothes with old lye soap, To show by example how to cope
Yes, "Mid" and Emma were put to test, As they together populated the West
She made a great mother amid pots and lids, For any woman who wanted no kids
Her life was one of continual chore, We're glad she had us--but not any more
If there were no you and there were no me, We'd be without brothers and sisters, you see
As time marches on and relatives spread, Let us keep in touch with heart and head
Our family tree--as it's branches we fill, May it never be slabs in a lumber mill
As we gather once more "en mass" today, Let us count our blessings in every way
We thank our parents for birthing us all, For giving us life, health and some gall
Emma excelled as could no other, For she was the very bestest mother
Good health, good cheer and endless love, Were her compliments from the Lord above
"Mid" did the best that he knew how, So time has brought us up to now
And, as you know, all poems must end, But not before these thoughts we blend-----
This family large has lost a few, I'll cover them briefly here for you
But rest assured they are with us still, As they look down upon us from their heavenly hill
Our father, "Mid" was the first to go, His death was by drowning in roadside slough
Then next to leave this earthly land, Was brother John; shot by bullet and man
Then brother Calvin quickly went, Hit by a drunk-speeding car event
Our mother Emma was finally called home, But lived several years after breaking leg bone
Sister Zella was next when her life did cease, A victim of crippling Lou Gehrig's disease
Sister Lucy one morning was suddenly gone, In peaceful sleep her life was done
Both parents departed plus four of their flock, That leaves ten living as we take stock
So let's enjoy this reunion as before, And pray it's a while till we lose any more.
"Mama"
Written By Elsie Kay Gilbert Nelson
My mother, Emma Gilbert Albro, born May 25, 1888 at St. Francis, Kansas, says she is a Kansas sunflower who was transplanted - first to Colorado, then by covered wagon to Wyoming, and to Idaho, thence by Willys-Knight auto, to Montana, Many moves were made after she married Millard G. Gilbert at Atwood , Kansas, December 19, 1904.
We Gilberts came to Montana in June, 1924. My parents bought land through Larson Bros. Real Estate Co. at Charlo, settling near the Nine Pipe Reservoir. There was a new, red barn on the property. We lived in it until a house could be built. Mother cooked on a stove outside the barn. There was a big "pot-hole" near the barn, A well was dug close to it, giving a handy water supply. The new house was ready in time for the birth of the eleventh child. The Larson Bros. were promoting land sales for Flathead Irrigation Project. While we still lived in the barn, they took pictures of the new settlers and their nine children, entitling one, "The Crop That Never Fails." This photo is on page 114 of the book, "The Fabulous Flathead," which is a history of its settlement. Six of the Gilbert children attended the Charlo Schools - four were in gradę school, two were in high school. At first we drove a horse and buggy; later a school bus route was established.
The Utah-Idaho Sugar Company built a sugar beet factory at Chinook. The Gilberts had raised sugar beets before and we children were good at working them. We moved to Chinook where papa contracted sugar beet work from others. After a time, we raised beets for ourselves in the Milk River Valley. Three more children were born at Chinook, they now numbered fourteen. Four of the grown children have left the state, ten remain in Montana.
Mom has 41 grandchildren, 73 great-grandchildren and 20 great-great-grandchildren. She is a past-master at telling them stories! She became a widow in March, 1943. The two youngest children, age 9 and 13, were still at home, Eighteen years later she married Frank Albro, a former neighbor. They lived at Havre. Twelve years later she was again, a widow, For 95 of her 98 years, Mom had never been in a hospital or even had a prescription, then she fell and fractured her hip, She lived alone and kept house until that time. She walks with a walker, but not far. Her hobbies are writing letters, fixing damaged dolls, making paper flowers, playing Aggravation.
She loves the mountains of Montana and has spent many summers in a lovely, log cabin in which she has a life estate. We call it "The Silver Horseshoe" because she hangs foil covered horseshoes around for "Good Luck." One hangs over the entrance. The cabin is near Bull Lake. the rugged Cabinet Mountains. She some times sees a bear, many deer, and once, a mountain lion. She transports the necessary belongings in her 1957, blue, Chevrolet station wagon which we have dubbed, "The Bluebird." Her prayers to spend one more summer there, have been answered. She is enjoying "God's handiwork," from a wheelchair.
Throughout her long life she has been as sturdy as the sunflower with a ready side and a sweet disposition reflecting that same bright sunniness.
Grandma Albro, circa 1955
"The Silver Horseshoe"
Grandma's beloved cabin in the Cabinet Mountains
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